Birth Support

Doula | Birthkeeper |
Traditional Birth Attendant

Based in the Forest of Dean, supporting families across Gloucestershire, Herefordshire, Cwmbran and surrounding areas. Travelling and virtual birthkeeper support available.

This is for you if you want to feel truly held, informed and supported throughout your pregnancy & as you prepare for birth.

You may not have set out looking for this kind of support

But something in your bones knows that maternity care is missing something, or even that it is causing more problems than it solves…

We’ve been brought up in a country with free healthcare

And we are so privileged in that respect

But is pregnancy an illness?

Have you noticed that maternity care just scans for problems?

The ‘nurturing support’ has long been squeezed out

Pregnancy, birth and early parenthood are not a straight line.

They are a spiral — a journey inward towards birth, and then outward again as you land in your new life with your baby.

My Spiral of Support guide explores the different types of support available at each stage of pregnancy, birth and early motherhood, and invites you to notice what you might need for your head, your heart and your body as the journey unfolds.

Inside you’ll find my map of pregnancy as a spiral journey, gentle journal prompts, and simple ideas to help you feel more grounded, informed and supported as birth draws closer.


Pregnancy today can be strangely lonely.

With the rise of the nuclear family, and more couples who are both out working, it’s no wonder our communities and villages are on the decline.

You may have appointments, scans, blood tests, growth charts and checklists; surrounded by information, but still feel unsupported.

So much of modern maternity care is focused on looking for problems, measuring risk and moving through appointments.

But who is asking how you are?

Who is helping you prepare emotionally, physically and spiritually for birth?

Who is holding you through this huge transition?

Birth was never meant to happen in isolation

For most of human history, women did not move towards birth alone, guided only by appointments, apps and hospital policies.

They were surrounded by other women.

Mothers, aunties, sisters, neighbours, grandmothers, wise women, midwives and birth attendants. Women who knew birth. Women who knew the family. Women who noticed when someone was tired, frightened, disconnected or in need of care.

Today, many families are scattered. Supportive relatives may live miles away, relationships may be complicated, and friends may be busy with their own lives. Partners are often expected to become the whole village, while also navigating their own fears, hopes and responsibilities.

So many women reach birth technically “cared for”, but not truly held.

This is why continuous, personal birth support matters.

You do not need to prepare for birth alone.

Birth is not just something to get through.

It is a rite of passage — physical, emotional, instinctive and life-changing. It can ask everything of you: your body, your trust, your courage, your vulnerability, your voice.

Doula | Birthkeeper | Traditional Birth Support

The word doula is the one many people recognise.

It describes someone who offers emotional, practical and physical support through pregnancy, birth and the early postnatal days.

For me, doula support is part of what I offer — but it is not the whole picture.

My work feels more aligned with the word Birthkeeper, because it speaks to something deeper: keeping the wisdom of birth alive, protecting the atmosphere around birth, and trusting that birth is not simply a medical event, but a rite of passage.

Traditional birth support brings in older, embodied ways of caring for women: steady presence, practical skill, hands-on comfort, trust in physiology, and deep respect for the natural unfolding of birth.

My role is not the same as the modern medical midwife.

I do not provide clinical care, diagnose, monitor, or make decisions for you.

My work is to walk beside you, support your autonomy, help you understand your choices, protect the birth space, and bring calm, grounded, woman-centred care to the whole experience.

Your birth does not need to fit neatly inside someone else’s pathway.

Some of the families I work with are choosing care within the maternity system. Others are exploring a more sovereign path.

You may be planning a home birth, a hospital birth, a birth centre birth, an induction, a caesarean birth, or a birth outside standard pathways. You may feel clear and confident, or you may still be working out what feels right.

Wherever you are, my role is to support your autonomy, your preparation and your connection to yourself.

I do not tell you what kind of birth to have. I do not make decisions for you. I help you ask better questions, understand your options, prepare your body and mind, and stay rooted in your own knowing — even when the people around you have strong opinions.

This support is for women and families who want to feel informed, steady and genuinely held as they move towards birth.

Wherever You Are Choosing to Birth:

Whole Beings

My work is built around woman and families as whole beings.

Birth is an intensely physical experience, yet it is also deeply emotional, and as thinking beings, we use our intellect to plan.

I support you through the head, heart and hands: helping you understand your choices, feel emotionally steady, and prepare in practical, embodied ways for birth and early motherhood.

Intellectual

Emotional

Body Wisdom

This is not one-size-fits-all support.

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It is shaped around you, your birth, your family and what you need.

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This is not one-size-fits-all support. 〰️ It is shaped around you, your birth, your family and what you need. 〰️

Birth support begins long before labour starts.

When we work together, we use the antenatal time to build trust, talk honestly, prepare your body, understand your options, and explore what you need to feel safe and supported.

This may include birth planning, bodywork, rebozo, massage, biomechanics, relaxation, partner preparation, advocacy conversations, feeding preparation, postnatal planning, or simply space to talk through what is coming up for you.

During labour and birth, my role is to stay steady beside you. I support the atmosphere, your comfort, your partner, your choices and your connection to yourself. Sometimes that means practical hands-on support. Sometimes it means quiet presence. Sometimes it means helping you ask a question, pause, breathe, or remember what matters to you.

After birth, I can help you land gently into the early days — with postnatal reflection, feeding support, emotional holding and practical care as you begin life with your baby.

The Doula Team

I work closely with a small, trusted, local team of doulas and birthkeepers.

We each bring different personalities, experiences and ways of working, but we share the same passion: supporting birth with women at the centre. We believe in autonomy, continuity, deep listening, practical preparation and protecting the birth space.

This means I can offer both backup and shared care models.

For some families, I am your main birthkeeper/doula, with another trusted woman available as backup if needed. For others, especially those wanting a deeper level of support, two of us may share the antenatal preparation, on-call period and birth support.

This gives you more resilience, more continuity, and a wider circle of support — while still keeping the relationship personal and grounded.

Birthkeeper & Doula Support Packages

I offer birth support in a way that allows us to build a real relationship before labour begins.

The quality of the support comes from the preparation we do together beforehand — the conversations, bodywork, trust, planning, emotional processing, partner preparation and understanding of what matters to you.

For that reason, my core package is designed to support you properly through pregnancy, birth and the early postnatal days.

If you are booking later in pregnancy, please still get in touch. Late bookings may be possible, but they usually require more concentrated preparation and may carry an additional fee.

Choosing the Right Level of Support

Birth support works best when we have time to build a relationship before labour begins.

If you are early in pregnancy and feel drawn to this work, the 1-Month Birthkeeper Starter Package is a gentle way to begin. It gives us space to explore your wellbeing, birth stories, family patterns, antenatal options, nutrition, lifestyle and what kind of support may feel right for you.

My main birth support package is Signature Birthkeeper & Doula Support, which includes preparation through pregnancy, on-call support, backup doula reassurance, continuous birth support and early postnatal reflection.

If you would like a wider circle around you, Shared Care can be added through the Doula Team.

If you need more support after birth, I also offer Traditional Postpartum Support, which can include feeding support, babywearing, nourishing food, household help, birth story holding, closing the bones, safe cosleeping information and overnight support.

Free Pregnancy Support Booklet